11th August 2010
What does long term care insurance protect? In some instances this is an obvious answer. Let's keep the burden of care giving away from our kids; they have their own lives to live. The other obvious answer is protecting ones assets. The longer we live the...
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11th August 2010
What's the first thought in your head when you hear "instant credit card?" A log of internet browsers noticed that there are credit card companies luring potential clients left and right over the internet. They always announce that they provide the best c...
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11th August 2010
There are lots of companies and banks that offer credit cards. There are so many different kinds of credit card that are available in the internet as well. Many people are engage to apply in credit card because they don't need to carry a big amount of cas...
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06th July 2010
Nowadays, it's all too easy for us to 'live for today and pay for it tomorrow'. The vast majority of adults will have some kind of credit line and will pay for things with money they have borrowed and, perhaps, the most worrying thing is that it's becomin...
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06th May 2010
Early in my career as a psychotherapist, I worked with Mary and Cal. Mary and Cal met when Mary was 38 and Cal was 47. Cal had been married before and had two adult children, while Mary had never been married. Cal made it very clear to Mary that he did no...
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06th May 2010
"How can I get my husband to read your books?'
"How can I get my wife to be more sexual?"
"How can I get my husband away from the TV to spend time with me?"
"How can I get my wife to be on time?"
"How can I get my husband to talk with me about...
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06th May 2010
2. Be constructive, not critical
Supervisors and bosses can all too often become critical.
Often people who have tried to organize their work or solve workplace problems themselves have been severely criticized for the solution they have implemented...
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06th May 2010
based on enjoying each other's company.
Co-dependent people may even feel anxious if someone they have been helping gets their life in order and no longer wants their help. The co-dependent person may immediately look around for someone else they ca...
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06th May 2010
meet available men.
In the course of our work together, it became apparent that Myrna rarely took loving action in her own behalf with her friends and family. For example, Jessica, one of Myrna's friends, would often get angry and blame Myrna when Myrn...
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13th April 2010
My clients often explain to me how they set a boundary. They tell me something like, "I set a boundary. I told him he has to stop putting me down in public," or "I set a boundary. I told her she has to be on time from now on," or "I set a boundary. I told...
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13th April 2010
To be loved by someone could be one of the most beautiful things one may experience in life. A person can find his own ways on how he can express love to another person. It is overwhelming to be loved by another person especially when that person makes hi...
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13th April 2010
Mandy and Evan consulted with me for couple's counseling because they were always bickering. Every little thing seemed to become an issue between them. They loved each other very much, but the bickering was certainly getting in the way of enjoying each ot...
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13th April 2010
Sam, age 42, had never been married. It's not that Sam had never fallen in love. But every time a relationship had started to move toward commitment, Sam ran.
When Sam's loneliness became overwhelming to him, he called me for help.
"I want to be in ...
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13th April 2010
One of my clients, whose ex-girlfriend recently broke up with him, asked me the following question:
"I think I still love her, but is this love or just emotional dependency? Many times I ask myself if falling in love comes from the wounded self because...
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13th April 2010
Are you looking for a good gift idea for the man in your life? Are you never quite sure what to get him? Does he have t-shirts and ties you have gotten him hidden in the back of your closet? Even if your man is hard to buy for, there are great ideas ou...
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